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U is for Unity….

The greatest gift about open adoption is that two family become united and have unity of one little child to become one. I have the most amazing adoptive parents for B and I am grateful every day to have them in my life.  I seriously couldn't picture my life without them and never want to know what… Continue reading U is for Unity….

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T is for Tattoo…

On my 36th birthday, I went and got the tattoo that meant so much to me during my adoption process and postplacement. Everyone would always ask my most hated question "How are you?" AndI would respond "I'm FINE" when honestly I was not fine one bit. I wanted to scream SAVE ME! I mean how… Continue reading T is for Tattoo…

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R is for Respect…..

Respect - Noun - "A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements" or Verb - "Admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements." DON'T BE LIKE ME, when I was uneducated and naive.  I thought adoption was for people who simply didn't… Continue reading R is for Respect…..

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O is for Over…

I seriously couldn't wait until the adoption was finalized and over.  I had the worst experience with my agency in Wisconsin but an amazing experience with the adoptive parent’s home state adoption agency.   I was OVER having to deal with my counselor in Wisconsin, all she did was complain about extra paperwork that was… Continue reading O is for Over…

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N is for Numb….

     Sometimes it came down to I just missed him, sometimes it came down to mail being received, sometimes it came down to updates being received and sometimes it came down to just what every my head wanted to believe.  It really didn't need to have a reason, I just NUMBED the pain, PAIN… Continue reading N is for Numb….

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M is for Michelle….

I am thirty-six years old and originally from Chicago. I currently reside in Wisconsin with her two children, ages twelve and sixteen years old and husband of almost two years. I am also a birth mother of one sweet boy who just turned three years old in August of this year.   In 2014, at the age of thirty-three, I found herself pregnant from an abusive boyfriend… Continue reading M is for Michelle….