Adoption · Birthmother · Family · Life · Memories · Parenting · Reflection

Silence Has Been A Gift

I have been silent as I have been unmotivated to write and wanted to focus on myself, my kids, my husband and my professional career.  My silence has been a gift and has helped me refocus on what is important. While I been silent, I was still living a busy yet rewarding last few months.… Continue reading Silence Has Been A Gift

Adoption · Birthmother · Family · Life · Reflection · Siblings

Are They The Right One’s?

When I decided on February 26, 2016 adoption was my choice for the child I was expecting I had no idea what were the next steps in this journey.  Many things were running through my head, do I find an agency or do I just google perspective family profiles.  I was destined to find the… Continue reading Are They The Right One’s?

Abortion · Adoption · Birthmother · Family · Life · Parenting · Reflection

Three Choices and One Decision

 I found myself pregnant at the age of 33.  I was already a kick ass mom and had sole legal custody of my two older children.  You would think an unplanned pregnancy was no big deal, right?  Well, not exactly.  I was then faced with the most difficult decision.      I saw three choices:… Continue reading Three Choices and One Decision

Adoption · Birthmother · Family · Grief · Life · Reflection · Siblings

An Open Conversation with Austin

Sophocles has said' “Sons are the anchors of a mother's life."  I could not agree more with this as Austin has been by my side through everything; pregnancy with his sister, divorce from his father, few breakups, pregnancy with Little B, the adoption process, college classes, my grief process after Little B voluntary termination of… Continue reading An Open Conversation with Austin

Betrayal · Family · Life · Memories · Reflection · Siblings

Twist and Turns—The Epic Ending

The Epic Ending      In August of 2016 I graduated with my degree in Business Management.  I achieved this while being a single mom, working full time and healing from my past.  The day I finally received my ending GPA, I might have gloated a little on Facebook. I was proud of what I just… Continue reading Twist and Turns—The Epic Ending