Abortion · Adoption · Birthmother · Family · Life · Parenting · Reflection

Three Choices and One Decision

 I found myself pregnant at the age of 33.  I was already a kick ass mom and had sole legal custody of my two older children.  You would think an unplanned pregnancy was no big deal, right?  Well, not exactly.  I was then faced with the most difficult decision.      I saw three choices:… Continue reading Three Choices and One Decision

Adoption · Birthmother · Family · Grief · Life · Reflection · Siblings

An Open Conversation with Austin

Sophocles has said' “Sons are the anchors of a mother's life."  I could not agree more with this as Austin has been by my side through everything; pregnancy with his sister, divorce from his father, few breakups, pregnancy with Little B, the adoption process, college classes, my grief process after Little B voluntary termination of… Continue reading An Open Conversation with Austin

Betrayal · Family · Life · Memories · Reflection · Siblings

Twist and Turns—The Epic Ending

The Epic Ending      In August of 2016 I graduated with my degree in Business Management.  I achieved this while being a single mom, working full time and healing from my past.  The day I finally received my ending GPA, I might have gloated a little on Facebook. I was proud of what I just… Continue reading Twist and Turns—The Epic Ending

Betrayal · Family · Life · Memories · Reflection · Siblings

Twist and Turns—-My 30’s

My 30's      I am not sure where I should begin, so I will begin at the present. I am currently 36 years old and I want nothing to do with my biological sister unless it has to do with speaking to my nephew.  She could be the last person around and I believe… Continue reading Twist and Turns—-My 30’s

Betrayal · Family · Life · Memories · Reflection · Siblings

Twist and Turns—My 20’s

My 20's      I lived in Jacksonville, Florida in my early 20’s before moving to Kenosha, Wisconsin.  I became a mom just two weeks after my 20th birthday.  My sister graduated college.  She was the first Kleszynski to achieve a college degree and I was proud of her and her future.      I would fly… Continue reading Twist and Turns—My 20’s

Betrayal · Family · Life · Memories · Reflection · Siblings

Twist and Turns—Teen Years

Barbara Alpert says, “Sister. She is your mirror, shining back at you with a world of possibilities. She is your witness, who sees you at your worst and best, and loves you anyway. She is your partner in crime, your midnight companion, someone who knows when you are smiling, even in the dark. She is… Continue reading Twist and Turns—Teen Years